Question
Why does a 40-minute commute feel worse than 40 minutes of anything else?
Large text is Tomás Ferreira's own thinking; small text is where the AI pushed back. Every dot is a position you can pick up from.
My commute is 40 minutes. I've done far worse things for 40 minutes without complaining. Why does this one feel like theft?
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My commute is 40 minutes. I've done far worse things for 40 minutes without complaining. Why does this one feel like theft?
One theory: it's time you neither chose nor can use. Most 40-minute blocks are one or the other.
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One theory: it's time you neither chose nor can use. Most 40-minute blocks are one or the other.
I could use it. I could read. I never do.
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I could use it. I could read. I never do.
Look at my phone and get angry at the train.
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Look at my phone and get angry at the train.
So the time isn't being stolen — it's being spent on being angry about it being stolen. That's a loop.
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So the time isn't being stolen — it's being spent on being angry about it being stolen. That's a loop.
Would you rather have the 40 minutes back, or stop resenting them? Those are different projects.
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Would you rather have the 40 minutes back, or stop resenting them? Those are different projects.
...Stop resenting them, honestly. I'm not moving.
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...Stop resenting them, honestly. I'm not moving.
Then the experiment isn't "read on the train." It's "notice the first moment of anger and see what it's actually about." My guess is it's not the train.
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Then the experiment isn't "read on the train." It's "notice the first moment of anger and see what it's actually about." My guess is it's not the train.
I stopped here.
Current thinking point
My guess is it's the job. But I'll check.
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It's not the train, and not the job — it's the missing threshold
That's a strong claim. What makes you think he needs it? Because everyone who went fully remote in 2020 invented one. W…
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